empowering neurodivergent members of the jewish community

My Philosophy

in relation to Judaism and the Jewish community focuses on creating inclusive and affirming environments for autistic and other disabled members of our community. I believe in integrating the needs of neurodivergent and other disabled individuals from the outset, ensuring that everyone feels safe and included.

As an autistic and multi-disabled Jewish person, I have a deep, personal understanding of the challenges and barriers faced by neurodivergent and disabled members of our community. Fighting ableism is not just a professional endeavor for me; it is a vital, lived experience. It is crucial to elevate the voices of those who have been silenced and misrepresented by others who speak on our behalf without truly understanding our experiences. My work is dedicated to creating inclusive spaces where neurodivergent and disabled individuals can thrive and be authentically ourselves. By advocating for neuro-affirming practices and challenging societal norms, I aim to foster a community that respects and values the diverse experiences and contributions of all its members. My goal is to ensure that our voices are heard, our needs are met, and our rights are recognized.

I emphasize the importance of collective responsibility within the Jewish community to foster inclusive spaces. This involves educating community members, leaders, and institutions about autism and Neurodiversity, promoting empathy, understanding, and proactive inclusion and true acceptance. By dismantling ableism and challenging harmful stereotypes, I advocate for community-wide efforts to ensure neurodivergent and other disabled individuals are respected and valued, empowering them by affirming our experiences and advocating for their rights and needs.

A significant part of my approach involves embracing the diversity within Jewish texts and mystical practices, highlighting the contributions and experiences of neurodivergent individuals. I promote mental health and well-being by addressing the challenges associated with masking and unmasking and advocating for supportive practices that enhance the mental and emotional health of all disabled individuals in our community. My leadership and mentorship style is holistic and compassionate, focusing on the well-being of the entire community and fostering a sense of belonging for all members, regardless of their neurotype.

Autism, Neurodiversity and Disability Consulting for Jewish Communities & Organizations

I offer consulting services focused on autism, Neurodiversity, and disability inclusion for synagogues, Jewish organizations, and other communities. This includes providing training on autism and Neurodiversity, developing inclusive policies, and creating accessible environments that accommodate the needs of neurodivergent and other disabled individuals. My consulting work emphasizes practical strategies for fostering a culture of empathy, understanding, and proactive inclusion. By working with community leaders and members, I help create spaces where everyone feels respected, valued, and able to participate fully in community life. Would you like to work together? Let’s chat.

Inclusive Community Training

I provide training for Jewish communities and organizations to foster inclusive environments that respect and accommodate neurodivergent and other disabled community members. This includes educating leaders and members on autism and neurodiversity, implementing practical strategies for inclusion, and creating spaces where everyone feels safe and valued. Let’s talk about how we can get started in your community.

Neuro-Halakha Consultation

Through Neuro-Halakha, I help rabbis understand the circumstances of the autistic and neurodivergent community members so that they can best interpret Jewish laws and traditions to be more inclusive of neurodivergent experiences. I offer guidance on adapting practices to ensure accessibility and meaningful engagement for all community members, respecting the unique ways neurodivergent individuals interact with their faith and community. Let’s talk.

Support Groups for Autistic Adults & Teens

I lead support groups and workshops for autistic and other neurodivergent individuals within the Jewish community both online and in-person. These sessions provide safe spaces for sharing experiences, building connections, and gaining practical skills for navigating both neurotypical and Jewish spaces. Topics include unmasking, sensory management, self-care, and integrating neurodivergent identities with Jewish practices. Additionally, I facilitate an autistic Jewish book club, offering members the opportunity to read and discuss books that resonate with their experiences and interests. Do you want to organize support groups for autistic people in your community? I can help, get in touch. Want to join some of the ones I have ongoing? Click here.

Educational Speaking Engagements & Seminars

As an autistic advocate for autistic inclusion, I offer speaking engagements that promote understanding of neurodivergent experiences by an actually autistic and multi-disabled POV. For too long this space has been dominated by others speaking in our name. Tailored to diverse audiences, these talks aim to dismantle stigma, foster empathy, and promote inclusion within Jewish communities and beyond.

My seminars on autism, providing in-depth insights into autistic experiences and promoting understanding and acceptance. These seminars are designed for various audiences, from community leaders to educators, and aim to foster a more inclusive and empathetic society. We cover a wide range of topics, including the challenges and strengths of autistic individuals, strategies for creating inclusive environments, and the importance of neurodiversity.

By raising awareness and promoting acceptance, these seminars help create a more supportive and understanding community for neurodivergent individuals. I conduct these online and in-person. If you’d like to see what I have on my schedule, click here. If you’d like me to come to your community, click here.

Mental Health and Well-Being Advocacy

I advocate for the mental health and well-being of autistic community members, addressing challenges such as masking and Autistic Burnout. My services provide resources and strategies to enhance the mental and emotional health of autistic community members, ensuring they feel supported and understood. Recognizing the intersectionality of identities, I develop initiatives that address the unique challenges faced by autistic individuals who belong to other marginalized groups. These initiatives aim to create a more inclusive community that respects and celebrates the diverse experiences and contributions of all its members.

Teaching Neuro-Affirming Jewish Practices

I teach neuro-affirming Jewish meditation and embodied prayer practices designed for communities, individuals, and groups. These sessions integrate mindfulness with Jewish spirituality in ways that accommodate autistic needs. We explore traditional Jewish meditative practices and embodied prayer, adapting them to be accessible and meaningful for autistic individuals. By creating a supportive and inclusive environment, I aim to enhance spiritual well-being and connection to one’s Jewish practice.

Educational Workshops on for Autistic Adults & Teens

My workshops for autistic Jews are designed to provide a supportive and inclusive environment where participants can learn, connect, and grow. These workshops focus on personal growth and development, helping participants explore their Jewish and autistic identities, and develop strategies for navigating both neurotypical and Jewish spaces. Sessions cover topics such as self-advocacy, unmasking, sensory management, and self-regulation. Participants engage in group activities, discussions, and shared experiences to build a sense of community, fostering mutual support and a sense of belonging. By integrating autistic traits with Jewish practices, the workshops help individuals fully participate in Jewish life while honoring their unique experiences.

Each workshop equips participants with practical skills and tools for everyday life, including techniques for executive functioning, managing social interactions, and maintaining mental and emotional health. The inclusive and affirming environment ensures that every participant feels respected, valued, and understood. Through interactive and engaging formats, such as group discussions, hands-on activities, and multimedia presentations, the workshops cater to different learning styles and preferences. Overall, these workshops aim to empower autistic Jews to navigate their world with confidence, resilience, and a strong sense of community. I host them on-line and in-person. To check out ones that I currently have scheduled, click here. If you’re interested in me organizing a workshop for your community, click here.

Spiritual Direction, Counseling & Coaching

I offer spiritual coaching to help individuals deepen their connection to Judaism and navigate their spiritual journey. My approach integrates Jewish teachings with neuro-affirming and queer-affirming practices to support your unique path. This includes exploring Jewish mystical traditions and interpreting them through a neurodivergent lens. We will work on enhancing your spiritual life, addressing spiritual trauma, and finding ways to incorporate spirituality into your daily routines. My goal is to help you find a deeper, more meaningful connection to your faith and spiritual practices. You can schedule a session here.

Jewish Weddings & Couples Coaching

I provide personalized Jewish wedding ceremonies and pre-wedding spiritual and relationship counseling and coaching for all couples, with a special focus on neurodivergent and otherwise disabled couples. My goal is to help you navigate the emotional and sensory aspects of wedding planning, ensuring your experience is meaningful and joyous.

My philosophy is rooted in creating inclusive and affirming environments for autistic and other disabled members of our community. As an autistic and multi-disabled person, I understand the unique challenges you may face. I am dedicated to integrating your needs from the outset to ensure you feel safe and included. I offer pre-wedding counseling that prepares you for the months leading up to your wedding, focusing on emotional readiness, managing sensory inputs, and developing strategies to ensure a smooth and enjoyable experience.

This process is designed to help you and your partner connect deeply and approach your wedding day with confidence and peace. Your wedding ceremony should be a reflection of your unique journey and love story. I work closely with you to customize every aspect of the ceremony to honor your traditions, values, and personal experiences, including sensory-friendly adaptations and meaningful rituals that resonate with your shared vision. My work is dedicated to fighting ableism and elevating the voices of neurodivergent and disabled individuals.

By advocating for neuro-affirming practices and challenging societal norms, I strive to foster a community that respects and values the diverse experiences of all its members. This commitment extends to ensuring your wedding day is a true celebration of who you are.

I conduct weddings all around the world according to Jewish Renewal, Reconstructionist, Reform, and Masorti traditions.

If you are interested in learning more about my services or would like to work together, please get in touch. Let's ensure your wedding day and the journey leading up to it are filled with joy, meaning, and inclusivity.

Autistic Peer-Support Coaching

I provide personalized peer-support coaching tailored to autistic individuals, focusing on self-regulation, unmasking strategies, and tools for honoring your authentic self. My approach includes modalities like Somatic Mindfulness Meditation, Interpersonal Neurobiology, and Therapeutic Journaling. Together, we will explore techniques for managing executive dysfunction, overcoming imposter syndrome, and planning for the future. Our sessions also address the unique challenges of autistic life, such as dealing with sensory sensitivities and finding balance in daily routines. By leveraging your strengths and developing personalized strategies, we work towards achieving your personal and professional goals. You can learn more here.